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Romanian people

Good manners & Etiquette in Romania

Bucharest-Romania
Alina

Tour Guide, Transylvania, Romania

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  • Romanians are friendly and open and foreigners are usually made very welcome. Chatting with visitors is very common for Romanians and they will find a way to communicate with you even if they cannot speak your language.

  • Older people particularly appreciate old-fashioned politeness. It is respectful to use Mrs. or Mr. when using the name of a person that you just meet.

  • Handshaking is the most common form of greeting. When a Romanian man is introduced to a woman, he will probably kiss her hand, strictly avoiding her eyes.

  • If one refuses what a host offers to eat or drink, this will often be taken as a polite refusal by the guest who really means to say „yes”. If you want to refuse the offer find a polite excuse and say it firmly or ask for a replacement.

  • It is common to linger once the meal (lunch or dinner) is over.

  • When visiting someone at home bring a small gift. Most common gifts include flowers or chocolate (for women only), a bottle of wine or liquor.

  • The number of flowers that one offers must always be odd.

  • Other well-appreciate gifts include Western cosmetics (i.e. eau de toilette or after-shave) and clothing.

  • All gifts should be wrapped, but many Romanians might not unwrap their gifts in your presence.

  • In Romania, as in many Latin countries, life is lived at a more relaxed pace.

  • Normal European courtesies should be followed on social occasions.

  • Although casual dress is fine on most occasions, wearing a suit and tie, or the women’s equivalent, is important at business meetings.

  • Appointments are necessary and punctuality is expected.

  • It is not considered impolite to ask a person’s age, politics, income or religion, so don’t take such questions amiss.